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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

Last Updated: 16.06.2025 14:29

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

Why do I have an itch in my labia, white gooey and thick discharge which doesn't have a smell but my vagina does sometimes and both me and my partner do not have STDs, what is it?

My mum and dad in the seventies!

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

Why do people keep complaining about how some people copy and paste the question before answering it? To me, it's very disturbing and makes me want to block and mute them as annoying whiners.

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

Would this be the day?

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

What traits are considered unattractive? Which traits are typically seen as attractive and why?

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

Is it true that all men want a woman who looks like an Instagram “model”?

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

They are buried together, in the same grave..

Comes on , in middle age.

How do I deal with autistic burnout/meltdown/shutdown when cooking?

And who doesn’t know suffering?

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

Why do unattractive men assume that a pretty woman like me want them?

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

All the time i was locked up.

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

Why have feminists not demanded that females be required to register with the selective service? Are female lives more precious than male lives?

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

I think the readers, may guess!

Why do foolish atheists think their strange delusional theories are facts?

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

What do you do you do if your motorcycle chain snaps while riding on the highway?

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

Have you ever seen a woman having sex with a dog?

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

Does eating bread before bed make you fat? If so, why?

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

He was dying to do it , i knew.

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

I found out I have cancer—I have not told my family. We can’t afford the treatment anyway. Should I just say nothing and let nature take its course?

Im dying but, im not bitter.

I was seconnd youngest,

The only rule us 5 kids had .

How many boxes 600 x 400 x 200 go into a 20ft container?

When she asked me how she looked .

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

I write beautiful poetry .

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

This is soul school!.

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

I waited trembling.

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

I did it because my mum asked me too!

She married twice! .

I never cut or harmed myself..

Where the ultimate outsiders.

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

Im still living with it.

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

This is how, and why children get BPD.

And i lived it daily.

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

I will be 64.

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

I had hoped to write a book about this .

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

It was going to be , some day.

She was in good health!

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

We were not on the streets..

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

He knew the spot.

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

I said to her

I have no regrets .

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

On the 31st of Jan this month .

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

My life is so biszare .

But ive been too sick for many years..

Why did i forgive my father ?

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

I don,t even have a pension.

My family never makes their pension either.

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

Put me off passion for life!!

Was to survive, this bastard.

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

As i do to all so called friends.?

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

One cannot live in the past .

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

I was very sick at this time too.

Especially a lifetime of it.

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

I could never make a relationship work though!

Ive learnt so much.

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

She found it foreign!.

So whats the point in blame.

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

So, i spoilt her more .

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

We all went to grammer schools

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

But it wasn’t much.

(And it was in our own minds.)

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

But, we were locked up after school.

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

I was scared of men, in general

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

I know ,a lot about trauma.

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

She loved him until the end.

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

She wouldn,t have been !

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

Who then, do I blame.?

I was 9 years of age.

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

What did i know ?

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

I couldn’t, believe it.

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

He resisted the act ,that day.

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.